This undated piece was written in Berkeley in early 2016. I hope it gives you a picture of what Homelessness was like — for me.
It’s driving me nuts having to be outdoors while almost everybody I can halfway relate to in life is indoors. If I relate to the people who live outdoors, it is because we all live outdoors. We share the values and mores of outdoor living in common, even if we share nothing else. But ninety percent of the time – damn right we share nothing else.
Approximately three times a week, someone who lives outside, someone whom I’ve never seen before, emerges out of someplace where I’ve probably never been and threatens to knock the crap out of me. Yet I am a man of peace. I only want to make my music. I want to sit down with my laptop, crank up my music notation software, and compose. But if I even dare get my hands on a laptop at these days, I’m an easy mark for every living thing that hides behind a bush. I’ve been hit on the head with guns down here. If I buy a laptop, they assume it’s for trade or sale. If I’m not willing to sell it, they might just take it by force. My musicianship means nothing to a predator.
Maybe five times a week, a person who lives inside (whom I’ve also never seen before) approaches me and asks: “Are you homeless?” How I have come to hate that question! I almost disdain telling the truth, because I am so tired of seeing so much blood come pouring out of their heart, you’d think they’d have expected me to slurp it up and drink it. Then, as they begin to promote whatever form of “help” they think best suits me, I find that in order to gain access to their assistance, I will be required to change my taste in food, my outlook on life, my political philosophy, and sometimes even my religion. I’m frickin’ sixty-three years old, for God’s sake!! I worked all my life!! And they’re asking me to change my faith? Now, of all times? My faith is exactly what has kept me alive throughout twelve years of indignity and insanity. Why should I abandon that which has helped me the most, in order to risk being hurt more than helped by the benign but misinformed intentions of a total stranger?
I know a very conservative homeless man who tells me he is expected to become a liberal because it is the liberals who are feeding him. But I have also seen many who identify as liberals become homeless, only to find themselves expected to become conservatives because, in their case, it’s the conservative Christians who feed them. Why is that, just because someone is down on their luck, they are expected to adopt the views of those who are not? Everyone is entitled to their own perspective, and it angers me that I should be expected to adopt the perspective of another person only because that person happens to have a roof over their head and more money than I do. Just because a person is in a higher socio-economic class doesn’t make them right. All it means is that they are in a better position to take advantage of another person’s weakness. And in my case, that weakness is H– H–H– My God, I don’t even want to speak the word anymore!
What word? The H-Word! Homeless! The word that, in one way, nobody ever hears — and in another way, it’s the only word they hear. It’s maddening. It’s exasperating. It’s more than frustrating – it’s infuriating.
Then there are the those who are not strangers. These are the ones to whom I once was close, perhaps even intimate — the well-meaning friends and family members who want to “help.” Oh, they’ll help all right! They’ll help in any way they can shy of actually putting a roof over my head. They’re always looking for the problem that “caused” me to become homeless, as if solving whatever that elusive problem might be could possibly solve the much more enormous problem that is Homelessness Itself. None of those band-aids can possibly heal the wound of Homelessness. That wound is way too deep for that.
There’s this huge division between the people who live outdoors and those who live indoors. It’s almost as though we’re an entirely different species. I can’t seem to do anything to bridge the gap, nor can I seem to do anything to get myself back inside. I’ve tried everything. All the suggestions everybody gives – they only lead me back to Homelessness. They never hit the core issue at its heart. So I get into this space where I start thinking: “Well, screw it. What’s the use of even trying?”
I shrug my shoulders. I head back to my Spot, lean my back against the brick wall of the BART station at the corner of Shattuck & Allston, take off my hat, and hold up a sign that reads:
BROKE AND HOMELESS
PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN
I silently watch them all go by. I make eye contact. I look as many of them in the eye as possible. Then, slowly but surely, little bits of change find their way into my hat. Then a couple of dollars here and there, every now and then a five, a ten if I’m lucky, perhaps even a twenty. People ask if they can buy me a sandwich. Some people sneer, but they’re easy to overlook. By and by, I calm down. I forget my frustrations, my angst. I meditate. I pray. I look around me, and it is a beautiful day in the city that I love.
An hour goes by, and suddenly it doesn’t matter any longer what they all think. No longer am I driven nuts. Then another half hour or so goes by, and I remember something. I remember who I am. I know who I am. I even like who I am. So what’s that word I hear? The H-Word? Is that supposed to say something about me? Ah but no – perhaps we have forgotten. Nothing says anything about me but the Me who Knows Who Me Is. I Am the One I Am.
Three hours go by. I pick up my cash. The sun is setting. I weave my way off toward the spot where I sleep, where nobody knows where to find me. I look to the stars, and say my prayers to the God who believes in Me.
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4 thoughts on “The God Who Believes in Me”
I’m glad this isn’t part of your daily life right now, Andy, even though you found a way to handle it. Stay warm, my friend. Keep working on your dream.
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Thanks, Diana. I guess the only drawback is that they all know where to find me now. All night long, they do.
VERY inspirational! amazing you could drop all worldy concerns, even in the midst of lacking a home, and realize your true nature. Thank you for sharing this. !
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I’m somewhat blown away by your effusive appreciation of my work. More importantly though, I perceive something of a commonality here. I too once led a life that was enviable by modern societal standards. I had the nice car, the nice digs,the nice Italian shoes, the nice write-ups in Who’s Who, the nice handshakes with the mayor, the whole works. In your case, you appear to have discovered certain teachings that moved you, once you realized that material gain is not the precursor of personal happiness. In my case, a fairly sudden psychological breakdown induced by the death of a loved one and a corresponding switch in a psychiatric medication led to a first-time “manic episode” in which I lost everything I had in an alarmingly short period of time. But I definitely found myself more in the loss of defiling incumbrances than I ever could have when constantly hindered by same. I do believe I went a bit too far — but it’s All About Healing. Peace and Light be to You My Brother.