Q. Where would you like to be?
A. In a place of peace.
Q. Are you at war?
Q. With whom?
A. With my enemies, of course.
Q. And who are your enemies?
A. Good question. I tend to think that there are two of them — two young rapscallions from the hood, deluded young gentlemen who are often ringing my doorbell at odd hours of the night, for lengthy periods of time, and only to request annoying favors of me.
Q. These two young rapscallions — are they truly your ememies?
A. Probably not. My enemies are probably more internal than external.
Q. What do you mean by that?
A. Well you know, I have all these inner blocks or demons that try to prevent me from staying the course, from keeping to what I’m about, and all that.
Q. But if a guy rings your doorbell at three in the morning, and keeps ringing and knocking until you finally give up and go answer it, and you can’t get back to sleep, how is that your fault in any way?
A. You know something, you’re right. Almost any O.G. would not be able to get to sleep after something like that!
Q. So why are you being such a pushover?
A. That’s the internal enemy I’m talking about. I’m a pushover. The Kid knows that once a month, I’m going to be available to walk down to the nearest ATM and get him money for his chewing tobacco. So what I’ve got to do is just say NO and say it firmly.
Q. Why haven’t you done this already?
A. He keeps catching me off guard. Both of them do — the other one’s not so flagrantly nefarious – but he’s still got his angle. And his angle involves me, because—
A. Because I’m a pushover. And worse yet, I just told the whole world about it. Pretty soon, every rambunctious rapscallion in town will be knocking on my door. On MY door! On the lockable, locked door that I EARNED – after putting in twelve hard years on the streets, where there was no door to be locked, or even to offer the slightest separation from me and all the evils of the night. What a fool I am to willfully descreate and violate the sanctity of my sanctuary! Damn, I’m pissed.
Q. And now?
A. And now what? I just have to make the internal change, and enforce it, and be firm about it. It’s like — a life lesson. It’s something I’m supposed to learn here, while I’m on this Earth, and take it to the next stage of experience, when I’m not.
Q. You think so?
A. Sounds good to me. Not knowing how to stand up for myself and say NO to people landed me in a gutter for over ten years. I daresay I shan’t make the same mistake twice.
The Questioner is Silent.
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